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Stress Awareness Month!

🌟 April is Stress Awareness Month! 🌟 As childcare professionals and nannies, we understand the vital role we play in the lives of the children we care for. Balancing the demands of our careers and personal lives can sometimes lead to stress, which, if left unchecked, can impact our ability to provide exceptional care.

🧠💚 Prioritising self-care and mental well-being is crucial for both our personal health and professional success. Here are some tips to help reduce stress and maintain a healthy work-life balance:

Practice mindfulness and meditation to stay present and focused.
Engage in regular physical activity to boost mood and energy levels.
Cultivate a strong support network, connecting with fellow childcare professionals to share experiences and advice.
Set boundaries and know when to ask for help or delegate tasks.
Make time for hobbies and interests outside of work to maintain a sense of identity and personal fulfillment.

By acknowledging the importance of stress management and self-care, we can continue to provide the highest level of care for the children entrusted to us. Let’s work together to prioritise our well-being this Stress Awareness Month and beyond. 💫

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Creating the perfect nanny job ad

Writing an advertisement to recruit a nanny can be a daunting task but we’ve broken it down into 3 easy steps.

Be honest

The first thing to do is to be honest with yourself about what you really need your nanny to do and how much you can afford. You should think about what you as a person are like to work for and what expectations you have of your children and their behaviour. Your nanny needs to be on the same wavelength as you so don’t advertise for someone open, chatty and relaxed if you’d rather have someone who keeps the relationship entirely professional and follows any routine to the letter. Are you happy for a nanny to bring their own child with them? Don’ t wait until the question is asked before thinking through scenarios as you’re more likely to feel pressured into saying yes to something you aren’t comfortable with.

Be realistic

Do you really need someone with a PhD and 30 years experience? Can you pay what they will ask? Can your nanny do everything in your job description within the time available? We hate to say it but nannies are superhuman so if you can’t achieve what you’re asking in a day then don’t expect your nanny to. You will probably need to make some concessions so be clear from the start what your ‘essential’ and ‘desireable’ criteria are.

Be specific

Give plenty of detail in your job ad. Nannies will rarely apply to a job with an unspecified salary, but if you don’t want to commit to a figure then give a range rather than just putting ‘negotiable’. If you know that as a teacher you will be at work late at least 3 times a term and need your nanny to babysit then state that upfront. When driving is an essential part of the job be clear that you need a driver and whether you will provide a car or expect the nanny to use your own. Sharing the rough daily routine will help candidates get a feel for the pace of life in your family and stating an expected job duration will help nannies make up their mind about whether your needs fit with theirs.

How to Lose Your Nanny in 10 Days: What Not to Do

If you have a nanny and want to keep them, avoid these 10 mistakes that could quickly lead to them walking out the door:

Ignore paperwork 📄Sign a contract before your nanny starts, and ensure you have their bank details, National Insurance number, and P45. Clear arrangements in writing are essential.

2. Skip the thank you 🙏Express gratitude for your nanny’s hard work. A simple thank you goes a long way.

3. Break your promises 💔Trust and respect are essential. Stick to your agreements to maintain a strong relationship.

4. Limit personal space 🚷Your home is your nanny’s workplace. Help them feel comfortable and avoid petty restrictions.

5. Be late without notice ⏰Unexpected lateness happens, but inform your nanny as soon as possible. They have plans too!

6. Neglect the kitty 💰Reimburse your nanny for expenses or provide a kitty for day-to-day spending.

7. Leave critical notes 📝Give constructive criticism face-to-face and offer suggestions for improvement.

8. Overstep boundaries with chores 🧽Nannies focus on the children, not your bathroom. Avoid asking for unrelated cleaning tasks.

9. Hover while they work 🚁Let your nanny work without feeling judged. They’ll be more relaxed, and the children will benefit.

10. Don’t pay them 💸Your nanny is a professional and expects to be paid. Non-payment is a breach of contract.

Remember, a good relationship with your nanny requires mutual respect and understanding.

Summer 2023 Fun activities!

As summer 2023 approaches and the days grow longer, it’s the perfect time to start planning outdoor activities with your children. With lots of long weekends on the horizon and the long summer holidays looming, many parents and caregivers may wonder how to fill those sunny days. Here are our top suggestions to keep kids entertained and engaged in the great outdoors:

Nature Drawing 🌳🎨

Explore your local park, garden, or nearby woodland with sketchpads in hand. Encourage children to draw what they see, from flowers and trees to insects and animals. This activity not only sparks creativity but also teaches them about nature while providing artwork to display at home.

Backyard Olympics 🏃‍♀️🥇

Inspired by the excitement of professional competitions, host your own Olympic-style games in the backyard or at a park. Let the kids choose events like races, long jumps, or beanbag tosses. They’ll enjoy creating signs, leader boards, and even making their own medals.

Teddy Bear Picnic 🧸🍉

A teddy bear picnic is perfect for including friends, whether they’re playmates or stuffed animals. Set up a shady spot with picnic tables or blankets and personalise the event with invitations and place cards for each special guest. You can also make simple teddy bear ears and paint noses to help children feel more like their cuddly companions.

Cycling Adventure 🚴‍♂️🌄

If you don’t have bikes rent or look out for second hand ones and plan a family cycling trip on a designated route or at a local park. If you have younger children, get bikes with child seats so everyone can participate.

Embrace the warm weather and make lasting memories with your children this summer 2023. Share your fun and inexpensive summer plans here! ☀️🌻 #Summer2023 #FamilyFun #OutdoorActivities #MakingMemories

Finding the Perfect Nanny: A Comprehensive Guide

iring the perfect nanny is an important decision for any family, as this individual will play a significant role in your child’s life. To ensure the best care for your little ones, it’s essential to find a nanny who aligns with your family’s values and needs. In this article, we’ll discuss the key steps to finding the perfect nanny for your family.

Introduction

Hiring the perfect nanny is an important decision for any family, as this individual will play a significant role in your child’s life. To ensure the best care for your little ones, it’s essential to find a nanny who aligns with your family’s values and needs. In this article, we’ll discuss the key steps to finding the perfect nanny for your family.

Step 1: Define Your Needs and Preferences

Before starting your search, take the time to outline your family’s specific needs and preferences. Consider factors such as the nanny’s schedule, responsibilities, experience, and education. Do you need a live-in or live-out nanny? Would you prefer someone with a background in early childhood education or a more informal childcare experience? Clarifying your expectations will make it easier to find the right candidate.

Step 2: Start Your Search

There are several avenues to explore when searching for the perfect nanny:

Personal Recommendations: Ask friends, family members, and colleagues for referrals. Personal recommendations are often the most reliable source when searching for a nanny.
Nanny Agencies: Reputable nanny agencies can simplify the process by pre-screening candidates and matching you with suitable applicants. .
Online Platforms: Websites and social media groups dedicated to childcare can be a valuable resource for finding potential candidates. However, keep in mind that you’ll need to conduct thorough background checks and screenings on your own.

Step 3: Conduct Interviews

Once you have a list of potential candidates, schedule in-person or video interviews. Prepare a list of questions covering topics such as their experience, childcare philosophy, and how they handle challenging situations. Also, ask for references from previous employers.

Step 4: Check References and Background

Always contact the candidate’s references to gain insight into their work ethic, reliability, and compatibility with your family. Additionally, conduct a comprehensive background check, including criminal history, driving records, and verification of any certifications, such as CPR and First Aid.

Step 5: Conduct a Trial Period

Before making a final decision, arrange a trial period where the nanny spends time with your family. This will allow you to observe how they interact with your children and whether their approach aligns with your expectations.

Step 6: Establish a Contract

Once you’ve found the perfect nanny, create a detailed contract outlining their responsibilities, salary, benefits, and other essential terms. This will help ensure a clear understanding of expectations and provide a solid foundation for a successful working relationship.

Conclusion

Finding the perfect nanny takes time, patience, and diligence. By following these steps and trusting your instincts, you’ll be well on your way to securing the best possible care for your children. Remember, the right nanny will not only provide exceptional care but will also become an invaluable part of your family’s life.Regenerate response

How to Encourage Your Child’s Imagination

Your child’s imagination is constantly evolving, and it’s important that you help to nurture it from birth and throughout their childhood.

By sparking your child’s imagination, you help to stimulate their brain which in time will allow them to dream and imagine new possibilities. More importantly, allowing your child to create their own imaginary situations can help with their speech, empathy, problem-solving, social skills, confidence and much more.

Here are a few activity examples to help develop your child’s imagination from a young age:

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Creative ways to say ‘no’ to your young child

Do you feel as though you’re constantly saying ‘no’ to your child’s demands and requests? Chances are, if your child is ignoring you when you say ‘no’, you might be saying it too often.

This can be a huge problem as you try to teach your child right from wrong, as well as trying to keep them safe.

That’s why we’ve put together some creative alternatives to saying ‘no’ to help regain your child’s attention whilst avoiding using the same word over and over.

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Is a nanny right for you?

What does a nanny do?

A nanny provides consistent, child-centred care in your home. They work the hours and days you need, and can also provide additional services such as babysitting on a regular or occasional basis.

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Nanny envy

“I’m worried she likes her nanny better than me…”

“They behave so perfectly for their nanny and are monsters when I’m around!”

“My nanny sees my friends more often than I do.”

If you’ve ever felt this then you’re not alone. You’re suffering from nanny envy and it’s actually surprisingly normal, even natural, to feel this way. Nor is it confined to having a nanny – you may well feel the same way about your child’s attachment to a childminder or nursery nurse. So why does no-one ever talk about it?

Part of the problem is admitting that you’re envious of your nanny means admitting that you’d rather be at home with your children, and that might be seen as regretting your decision to work. It isn’t a binary situation, though, and the decision to work depends on many factors ranging from financial necessity to keeping your sanity intact. Your feelings may also change from one day to the next and higher levels of nanny envy just after your return to work or just after the weekend are normal too. How you feel towards the relationship your nanny has with your child probably also varies according to how you feel about your job. When you have a bad day or you don’t go into work staying at home seems the more attractive option and jealousy towards to person who gets to do that can creep in.

A bit of jealousy definitely isn’t a reason to reconsider your childcare choice. There are huge benefits to having a nanny, and one of those is in fact the strong bond that your child will form with her carer. If your child wants her nanny when nanny isn’t around try to see it as a positive sign of attachment. Your nanny will probably tell you that your child periodically requests you when you’re at work too. Children are well known for wanting what they don’t have after all.

It’s also well known among nannies and experienced employers that children will behave very differently for different people so if your little princeling eat his greens and naps in his cot for his nanny but refuses to eat anything except pasta and requires cuddles lying across you when you’re around you aren’t doing anything wrong. Part of it is down to experience on the nanny’s part and part of it is your child feeling safe and secure enough to test the boundaries and express his affection, in some cases by literally smothering you.

So how canyou combat these feelings?

Try to disentangle your feelings towards your work life and your feelings about your nanny. If you resent going to work rather than leaving your children, which are very different things, maybe it’s time to reassess your job.

If you feel your nanny is handling your child’s behaviour better than you ask them for some hints and tips. Most nannies are very happy to work with parents to create new strategies for dealing with behaviour as it makes their job easier too in the long run.

Make an effort to see your friends or parents from school socially on a regular basis so you don’t feel like your nanny has replaced you. Also encourage your nanny to create their own social circle if they don’t already have one. It can be nice for your child to keep in touch with other children from your NCT group or equivalent but there’s no reason that it has to be your nanny who goes to the meet-ups. If the other parents typically meet during the week suggest that you organise something at the weekend, and nothing is stopping you from going out for a meal or a drink without the children in the evening.

Be open with your nanny about it. They may be inadvertantly making the situation worse so tell them how you feel to avoid them treading on your toes. A good nanny will be sensitive to your feelings and mindful of the fact that you are the parent and nothing can replace that.

Giving Our Children Time

There is pretty much a ‘How to Book’ about everything and for Parents, as well as nannies, this is most certainly true! From how to get a newborn to sleep through the night, to potty-training, to raising a well-rounded child. There is a plethora of information in books and on the internet.But some experts think that spending time playing with your child is the key to the rounded child. They suggest parents adopt a “five-a-day” approach with daily activities to help children reach their full potential.

There is pretty much a ‘How to Book’ about everything and for Parents, as well as nannies, this is most certainly true! From how to get a newborn to sleep through the night, to potty-training, to raising a well-rounded child. There is a plethora of information in books and on the internet.

The “five-a-day concept”

But some experts think that spending time playing with your child is the key to the rounded child. They suggest parents adopt a “five-a-day” approach with daily activities to help children reach their full potential. The five steps are as follows:
• Read to your child for 15 minutes
• Play with your child on the floor for 10 minutes
• Talk with your child for 20 minutes with the television switched off
• Adopt positive attitudes towards your child and praise them frequently
• Give your child a nutritious diet to aid development

How realistic is it?
Most parents will immediately add up the time involved: a whole forty-five minutes. In addition, there is the time it takes each day to provide nutritious meals. Particularly in households where both parents are working, couples will struggle to put aside this amount of time to play with their children after getting home. It is the dilemma facing every working parent: how to devote enough time to their children, while juggling career demands with household chores.

Doing It All Proves Impossible
In 2020 79% of mothers worked full time compared to 10 years previously when only 29 per cent did, a massive increase. And studies undertaken in America found that “supermoms” who try to “do it all”, are at greater risk of depression. Although employment is ultimately beneficial for women’s health, be it part-time or full-time, and mothers do not harm their young children by going out to work, women who try to excel both at work and at home, put themselves under too much pressure.

The Importance of Good Childcare
Is it reasonable then to expect parents to adhere to the five steps outlined above? A child’s parents may not be able to fit in all five activities, but the childcare can be of help. A good nanny will certainly be mindful of spending time playing with children and the importance of creative play in the early years. She should be able to tick the boxes of the playtime activities listed. Not all nannies will be required to provide meals for the children they care for but those that do will probably be instructed by the parents as to what their child is to eat. The fifth criterion, ensuring your child’s meals are health-giving, is therefore the parents’ responsibility. Good childcare then can help parents achieve their child’s “five-a-day”.

A Delicate Balancing Act
Most parents worry at one time or another that they are not doing enough by their children. The reality is, whether you are a parent in the home or working, most of us try our best to provide for our child and to give them as many opportunities for growth as possible. Both the “five-a-day” concept and the “fifteen minutes” approach can help guide us at least. And that goes for child carers too. Parents cannot always do it all, but they can ask that their childcare professional, their nanny for instance, ensures that their child is adequately attended to during the day and that there is plenty of one-to-one interaction. As parents, we cannot always do it all but at least we can try.