Helping Your Child Navigate the Digital World: Preventing Internet Addiction

In the modern era, children have grown up as digital natives, accessing the Internet from a very young age. While it offers a treasure trove of information and educational tools, it also brings forward the challenge of Internet addiction.

Understanding Internet Addiction in Children: Internet addiction is marked by excessive or poorly controlled desires related to Internet use, which affects the child’s daily routine, social interactions, and overall well-being. But, as parents and nannies, there are ways to guide and protect our young ones.

In the modern era, children have grown up as digital natives, accessing the Internet from a very young age. While it offers a treasure trove of information and educational tools, it also brings forward the challenge of Internet addiction.

Understanding Internet Addiction in Children: Internet addiction is marked by excessive or poorly controlled desires related to Internet use, which affects the child’s daily routine, social interactions, and overall well-being. But, as parents and nannies, there are ways to guide and protect our young ones.

Tips to Prevent Internet Addiction in Children:

  1. Establish Screen Time Limits: Set daily or weekly limits for non-educational screen time. Be consistent in enforcing these limits.
  2. Encourage Offline Activities: Dedicate time for offline hobbies. Be it arts and crafts, reading, or playing a sport, ensure they have ample offline engagements.
  3. Tech-Free Zones: Make certain areas, like dining rooms and bedrooms, device-free. This encourages family interaction and healthy sleeping patterns.
  4. Educate on Safe Internet Use: Teach your children about the dangers of over-reliance on the Internet and the importance of real-world interactions.
  5. Be a Role Model: Lead by example. If children see you setting and following digital boundaries, they’re more likely to do the same.
  6. Open Dialogue: Encourage your children to talk about their online experiences. Address their queries and concerns about the digital realm.
  7. Professional Guidance: If you notice alarming signs of addiction, such as falling grades or decreased social interactions, don’t hesitate to seek professional advice.

Guiding children in the digital age requires patience and understanding. Let’s help them harness the Internet’s power without letting it overshadow their beautiful childhood.


5 Quiet Alternatives to Screen-Time

“Screen time is bad for your children!” It seems as though that’s all we’re hearing in the news lately. Whilst research is still being conducted into the full effects of screen-time on young children, here are 5 alternatives for when you and your child need a little quiet time instead of turning to the TV, tablet or games console.

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Is your phone affecting your relationship with your child?

Frankie and Benny’s have announced that a ‘phone-ban’ at all tables in their UK restaurants will be implemented on a trial basis next week.

After conducting a nationwide survey that found that 72 percent of British children wished that their parents would spend less time on their mobile devices and more time talking to them, the popular restaurant chain has decided to try an incentive to help parents’ step-back from their phones so that the family could reconnect at meal times.

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Tablets for tots

You’ll have noticed that THE present for children this year was…. a tablet.

From LeapFrog’s LeapPad and VTech’s Innotab  to Asus’ Nexus 7 and Apple’s iPad mini, tablets are everywhere, loaded with educational apps and games to keep children amused. So what are the pros and cons of tablets for tots?

+1 They’re ultra portable

Books, DVDs, CDs, card games, pens and paper. Leave them all at home, there’s an app that will so it for you. You can also access media content legally for much less than the book or DVD would cost and easily pop on something for you too.

+1 They’re intuitive

Even children as young as 1 can get their heads around touch screen technology. Unlike traditional PC based educational games tablet apps are easy to get to grips with.

+ They promote hand eye coordination and fine motor skills, literacy and mathematical ability

Children have to learn to control their hands and fingers to use a tablet, and some games encourage matching, sorting and counting skills,  shape, number and letter recognition, and phonics, as well as making a variety of e-books easily accessible.

+ They grow and evolve with the child

Leapfrog and Vtech etc aside adults can get as much use out of tablets as children and teens. The sheer number of apps is staggering and a new tablet now should, barring breakages, provide entertainment for years that can vary according the child’s tastes.

-1 They stifle the imagination

There are some good, creative drawing and music apps out there but it’s no substitute for the opportunities real art materials or musical instruments give you. There’s also no scope to put a lion on Old MacDonald’s farm or adapt what the wheels on the bus do if you’re just listening to a recorded version.

-1 They’re fragile

Most tablets aren’t hugely robust, even when they come encased in rubber, and older children will probably want a 7-inch adult tablet anyway. Young children can’t appreciate that their new toy is a complex electronic device to be treated with care and even with the best will in the world a older child may accidentally drop it.

-1 They’re sedentary activities

You don’t move much when you’re using a tablet and it’s certainly no substitute for running around outside. Repetitive use of one hand could also lead to RSI, especially as the way children use touch screen technology when they’re young will set them up for how they use it in later life and it’s not going away.

-1 Children can access the Internet unsupervised or run up a bill buying apps

Most tablets aimed at the children’s market incorporate parental control but if you accidentally leave that off and your iTunes or Android marketplace account logged it’s scarily easy and fast for a child to run up a bill. Most free apps include a quick link to the full version and an imprudent tap or two could be pricy.

-1 They’re addictive

You know those adults who always have some kind of electronic device in their hand? Chances are they’re addicted. The brain quickly becomes dependent on the instant gratification a smartphone can provide and this can also less to problems with concentration later on. Children are especially vulnerable because their brains are still very plastic, which means new habits can form easily.
Our verdict:

Handle with care, both literally and figuratively! While they might keep children occupied for hours, you should also make time for activities away from the tablet, even if you’re essentially doing the same thing. If you’re a childcarer make sure to communicate with the parents about appropriate usage and stick to their rules.  Consider limiting use to specific locations or certain times of day to ensure that it isn’t overused and always double check the content and parental controls on a standard tablet. Finally, remember an interactive tablet is no substitute for an interactive adult!